I am resilient
How often have you heard that you “just need to resilient”. How do we do that??!!
Well we have to experience the challenge and choose to work our way through it. There is no other way around it. We can’t just go “Oh that challenge is too hard, I’m not going to do it” or “Those people just piss me off and I’m just going to disengage”. Those are the easy choices. The choice requires thought and a release from our essence. If you have done either of those two methods just mentioned and are still annoyed about the situation or person then you haven’t connected to your essence. You will know that you have released the attachment when you can think about it and not become upset or angry with yourself or others. True resilience is about as easy as forgiving someone who is never going to apologise…. Very hard.